How Much Cash Do You Put in a Korean Wedding Envelope? (Chukuigeum, Explained)

How much cash for a Korean wedding envelope? 100,000 won if you attend and eat, 50,000 if you just send regards. Never give 40,000.

Going to the Doctor in Korea (병원·약국)

A few weeks ago my throat started doing that scratchy thing it does every time the office air conditioning wins. It was lunchtime. I walked out of the building, found an ear-nose-throat clinic on the second floor of the building across the street, took a number, sat down, and was back at my desk within … Read more

Why Young Koreans Can’t Buy a Home (But Won’t Stop Trying)

There’s a Korean word you should know: youngkkeul (영끌). It literally means “scraping together your soul.” It’s not some spiritual thing — it describes what people do to buy a home here. You gather every won you can, borrow every loan you qualify for, and put your soul up as collateral too. The joke stopped … Read more

Why Koreans Ask Your Age First (And What It Actually Means)

The first time a foreigner asked me how old I was, I froze for a solid two seconds. Not because the question was rude — it wasn’t, at least not to me — but because I genuinely didn’t know which answer to give. My Korean age? My international age? In Korea I’d just say a … Read more